Also many here have been here for years and learnt the timeframes involved.
Imagine advertising some new toothpaste 5 years before it will be available and expecting people to stay in contact waiting on each new aspect of it till its ready. SAFE is a little like that, it is a long term project and as such requires a different approach.
As @happybeing says there was perhaps errors in your terminology when presenting it. Also we have seen a few flash in the pan plans to jump up and market SAFE only to see those people fall away themselves (or remain) but the disappointment was evident.
We are at alpha 2 stage and Fleming is alpha 3. They are not networks that people will typically be interested in (unfortunately and found out by experience).
And by comments you made in other topics you are leaning towards this being a project to see the coin raise in price and wondered why everyone would not see it that way (and used Pump in topic title). So you have to expect some pushback since quite a number of people here are not here for the coin price but for the project itself and are buying the coin to use on the network.
Now your comment about wanting to reach out to others is entirely endorsed by all who commented on your topic and hopefully by everyone in the forum. So really we are for you to promote SAFE and to continue to do so. Again as @happybeing suggested it was the unfortunate use of the word pump in the topic and in especially the speculation topic when you mentioned creating the pump topic.
There is definitely no Cancer that I can see and only helpful advise and meaningful help from those longer term members. Some of us have been involved in decade(s) long projects/research and know many of the pitfalls already. This can seem like people trying to put the brakes on, but really trying to be prepared for the long distance run that will be needed.
There was a reason that Maidsafe did not have a marketing team 2 or 3 years ago since it was too early and now they are getting up to speed as the project progresses towards the finishing line. But that line is still a way off. We need alpha 3 and experience tells us that its still a little ways off, but soon relative to a very long project. Alpha 4 could be this year or next, it depends on bugs, test results, etc. Beta is still next year at best estimates but could be 2021 if things cause it to be delayed. So a pump of promotions now is likely to be seen by longer term members as being only to pump the price and of course there will be pushback.
This is good since the project itself needs this. And you should be applauded for doing this. It has nothing to do with the effect on price and for many/some of us the price looks after itself as long as we focus on the project itself and promoting the project for the projects sake. If we promote it for the price sake then the project will eventually fall like most other blockchain projects.