We have to ask why? Why is that? Why is it that most OSS maintainers really have a hard time? Why do users of OSS see themselves in the same light as āinvestorsā (which btw I have noted to mean ājailersā in many senses or even āslaversā, not all but the loudest many times are).
So we need to stop a minute and ask why? Why is the relationship not just humans helping other humans out? Why are some voices to be heard while the silent majority are supportive, but quiet?
Thereās a lot in that.
I subscribe to @Guybrows note, iā¦e āyour opinion is not my businessā in general life, but here I enjoy listening. I enjoy the various inputs and help and advice, I am pretty good at not being affected by peoples personal opinion of me personally or technically, but I am very defensive of the team and the community at the same time. Thatās a balance 
I think this is true, but also the devs likely should be aware of where issues are etc. Not so much the economy stuff as thatās mass opinionated stuff in many cases, but the basic algorithms etc., for sure. The user feedback in terms of usability are really important though. However gathering that feedback means navigating a sea of very opinionated content that is not necessarily gonna make folk feel happy and motivated
Thatās not simple either. Thick skin will not help here as we want folk to listen but have skin thick enough to ignore
That is what we are asking for. So kinda not a simple thing
Again itās the OSS maintainers curse, you give and give and folk take and take and then when they have taken a lot, they start to command and direct and demand etc. not all, but it happens. It seems to be "humanā So I donāt single myself out in any way here.
Yes, I donāt know if it exists, but as a target, it would be nice to find.
So we end up stuck with a few folk who can navigate these waters, doing so means no real time to concentrate on the gnarly algorithmic changes or detailed code as the levels of concentration for that need to be quite intense. So we have folk that communicate and donāt do deep thinking etc. (unless they work crazy shit hours like me
) and others who do deep thinking etc. but cannot have bandwidth also to be here.
I think this is the way itās working, just from a 10,000 foot viewpoint